Unlike many western countries, Saudi Arabia still clings to many of its ancient traditions and customs, and though it may at first seem old fashioned, it is important to uphold its etiquette should you ever choose to visit this remarkable nation.
Introductions
If you’re new to the country, then chances are likely that you’ll be meeting a lot of new people and making a few introductions to complete strangers. It is important to note that while close friends and family may kiss each other on the cheek, most Saudi Arabians like to take their time to get to know strangers. Just because Saudi Arabians are conservative doesn’t mean that they’re cold or uncaring.
• Men and women do not greet each other in public (family excepted)
• Men typically greet each other with a warm handshake (right hand only)
• In certain regions, kissing the shoulder of a superior/elder is customary
• There is little to no touching between men and women while in public
• It is important to take time to include pleasantries before getting to the real reason for conversation
• Indirect eye contact is acceptable between men and between women, but between genders there is little to no eye contact
• The left hand is considered the “toileting hand” so be sure to use your right hand when making your greetings.
Table Manners
Saudi Arabians like to enjoy life. Rather than simply scarfing down their next meal, it is common practice to socialize and make small talk before the meal is served. However, there is little conversation during the meal itself to allow for guests to enjoy their food.
Additionally, gender separation still runs strong in the Saudi Arabian tradition, so remember that if invited to dinner in a Saudi Arabian home that dinner will be served in separate rooms to accommodate both genders.
Table manners would include the following:
• When seated, try to avoid crossing your legs at the knees
• You may be asked to remove your shoes
• Dress conservatively
• Punctuality is appreciated, so try to arrive on time.
• Even if you do not normally drink coffee, it is recommended that you accept the offer of Arabian coffee and dates so as to not insult their hospitality
• If possible, try a bit of everything. Saudi Hospitality approves of showering guests with abundance.
Additional Notes
Simple common sense and etiquette can go a long way when in the company of the Saudi Arabian people. The more you get to know them and their culture, the more you can understand their need to protect their values and traditions. By treating them with respect, they in turn will open up a whole new perspective.